While it's been somewhat difficult and very frustrating to have the boys adjusting to sharing a room, I also think what it's doing for their relationship and what sharing a room will continue to do for them is amazing. Sure, they've always been pretty good buds, getting along most of the time, usually preferring to stick together rather than go off on their own and all that. But with them sharing a room, it's taking it to a new level or something.
Two nights ago Easton was determined to do us proud when it came time for bedtime. Dalton, not so much. It's always Dalton being the instigator. Well, E and D whispered for a very short time about things, they were never silly and so they're allowed to talk...they're not robots, after all. But anyway, after their short little conversation we heard Easton tell his brother, "See you in the morning!" and then he didn't talk again. Dalton ended up having to come out that night and got stuck in the crib to fall asleep, a lot of that was so we could watch the Bachelorette finale, however. :)
Last night was really special as well. I don't want to explain the whole backstory so we'll just make it simple and say that Easton said he didn't want a "soft friend" for the night. He always has his Cuddles as a lovey but often switches out which stuffed animal he'll snuggle with--he's not particularly attached to anything but Cuddles. Anyhoo, we'll say that before bed Easton decided he didn't want a soft friend...and he was warned that he'd have to stick with that decision. You see, this is something Easton tries to pull several times a day thinking he is then allowed to throw fits over changing his mind. Like, "I don't want a kiss" before Jason leaves for work in the morning. Then as J's heading out the door he'll scream, "Yes kiss!!!" Or "I don't want you to watch my show with me" to hanging on to me so I can't leave. He tries to pull this all the time and while it's one thing to change your mind, this is not what Easton is doing. He knows what he wants the whole time, tells you the opposite and then flips out. So, that is why he said "No soft friend" he was told he'd have to stick with his decision and was he sure? He was sure. So, we do the bedtime routine and leave and then we hear Easton crying about how he wanted a soft friend now. Dalton's being very sympathetic and tells him, "I'll get Mommy" and then starts calling for me. So I go in, thinking how sweet it is on D's part but that Easton has to knock off his fit because he knew this was going to be the deal. Easton eventually ends up in two time outs over it and goes back to bed crying again. Dalton is in there telling him soothingly, "I know...I know" in almost like a "There there" tone. Sooooooooo sweet!
So then Easton continues to carry on and is telling Dalton, "Dalton, I want a soft friend" and we hear Dalton tell him, "Okay, I get one for you" and then we have to step in...as much as I love what Dalton is willing to do for his brother (break the rules) we still don't allow them to get out of bed like that. (Although if I'm being perfectly honest, I was willing to overlook it this time.) But, I definitely didn't like that Easton was asking D to do this rather than just do it himself, if anything.
I adore how they look out for one another this way. I know there will be many "sharing a room" battles as well but overall I think it's good for our boys.
Now only if I could get Dalton sleeping better through all this. I'm tired of them falling asleep too late, I'm tired of Dalton occasionally waking up screaming things in the middle of the night such as "I need milk!!!" or "I want me crib!!!" and throwing a complete fit threatening to wake his brother. I'm tired of him waking up at 6:00 a.m. and calling where he does wake his brother. These boys need their sleep. Mama needs her sleep and with the middle of the night stuff, unfortunately, it's always me dealing with it. Anyway...
We did a trip to the zoo today despite our early morning. The weather this week is only supposed to be low 70s and I can certainly handle a zoo outing in that weather, even at 34 and a half weeks pregnant. So we headed to the grocery store to pick up some breakfast from the bakery and brought it to the zoo with us. We ate and sunscreened up and got started on our way:

Dalton roaring at me like a cheetah:


Best brothers:

We liked this monkey's branch:

I guess I should say this gorilla's branch. The funny part was Easton, who fancies himself a monkey, was also walking around with a branch at the exact same time we saw that.
Then we did something at the zoo we've never done before...feed the lorikeets. For $1 you can buy a tiny cup of "nectar" to feed them so we did:

I took this as I was also holding Dalton:

Easton took this one:

And some lady offered to take this one:

Good times.
After that we hit the carousel...I've been overpaying all these years. Easton is free since he's under 42"...I thought it was just "under 3" but no. Oh well. They loved their carousel ride:


We only did about half the zoo today. But it was enough. My back is hurting a bit from pushing the double stroller all around the slightly hilly zoo. The boys walked a lot but I still had the stroller to push. I'm thinking that this was probably our last pre-Wabie visit. I'm sure it's gonna get real hot and at some point I'm going to want to stop all that walking in the hopes of making it to 9/9. I have this "fear" that I'll get super close --like, to 9/8-- and then go into labor on my own or something. Which would have me in the hosptial on 9/9 still and feeling jealous of everyone delivering that day. :)
Anyhoo...we headed back to the car after our spin on the carousel and drove home. Neither kid ate much lunch and Dalton's having a nap in the bunkbeds, Easton is doing quiet time in my room. That's about it from here.
Oh wait...actually, Dalton got a little note from a faraway friend yesterday. He was so excited to get mail of his own! I prompted him to smile and showed him what I had in mind and this is how he copied me:

Notice the stickers on each hand and then forehead. That's always his third spot for stickers when his hands get full. Goob.
Alright, well, everyone's all caught up yet again. Toodaloo!