...my worst day with Easton ever. And that is saying a lot because one day he almost died. Although I had the "benefit" of a lot of drugs in me back then so it didn't seem quite as bad as it really was. Anyway, we are having a heck of a day around here.
Started first thing...before Jason even went to work. Awful.
My sweet baby Dizzle has been sleeping for a lot of it. Bless him. I hate having to deal with so much from Easton when Dalton is awake.
So...we had lengthy timeouts this morning. He won't stay in his corner. I've had to buckle him into his booster seat in the corner a few times lately to get him calmed down enough to eventually stay put in the corner on his own for his "official" time out. Him staying in the "naughty spot" himself is key to us. This morning he was in his booster and one time he tipped it over backwards. Not good. Another time he was able to get out and stand on the seat. Lovely. So, now my booster chair technique is gone and I just have to battle with him to sit down and stay sitting.
He used to do so well.
It's almost like he's posessed today. Gonna be real great to show him off to the granparents like this, eh? I'm worried of what they'll think of my parenting skills after they see him. Yes, of course I care what they think. And I know I'm a good parent but if you saw us in Wal-Mart this morning you might question that statement.
Wal-Mart started off lovely. Then I put Easton in the back of the cart (Dalton was in his seat on the front). Easton likes to push the buttons on the "Try Me" toys in the baby aisle and if he's been good I let him. So he goes in the cart so he can reach. Fine. Then I leave him in the cart because it's easier to finish my shopping. Well, he starts trying to straddle the back of the cart. Not cool. Got him to stop that. Then he tried sitting on the rim! Absolutely not! I ended up carrying him and pushing my cart but Easton was being unruly and loud and trying to climb me. At that point I had to squeeze Dalton in his seat into the back of the cart with my groceries and buckle Easton into the child seat in front. Then he kept trying to pry my hands off the cart. Little booger.
Finally we got home...I probably forgot a ton of groceries. But we got home and Dalton went to sleep. I was putting away the groceries and Easton went to find Cuddles. Or so he said. Instead he went into Dalton's room, climbed up on it and started yelling at Dalton to wake him up! Argh!
We went into another lengthy time-out battle again. Once he was done we were snuggling and talking about things: we don't hit, we don't scream to wake up Dalton, we sit for time-outs... and then he started throwing another fit over wanting more juice.
Nap time!
Getting him to sleep (early, even!) wasn't too hard. And today I'm letting him sleep for as long as he wants. I really hope he shakes this 'tude. It is no fun. Hopefully having some new people around will help him--it used to. We shall see. Jason's on his way home to get the car to go get them right now.
I don't want to completely focus on the negative, although right now it's hard not to. So, to help me (and you lovely readers) here are some pictures of happier times to remind me of the sweet boy hiding somewhere inside today:
Sharing with Dalton:
Sweet love pats:
Cheese!
Boys in a basket, looks like E's loving a little tight, eh?
Snuggle:
Kiss:
And I can hardly stand how sweet this one is:
Come out, come out wherever you are! I look forward to the kid in those pictures coming back again. Soon!
Just a video (or 3) before we go:
Okay, gotta run. Company's coming!
7 comments:
(((hugs))) Kristin, I'm so sorry you guys are having such a tough day. And for the record, I don't think Wal-mart brings out the best in any child! Wishing you a pleasant visit with your company.
I am sorry E is giving you such a hard time. I bet the grandparents being there will help Easton. When we were on vacation I really got the sense he was jealous of your time with Dalton. He wants you all to himself again. Poor little guy. Love all of you. Have a great time with the in-laws! Moo
I have a tip for when E tries to pull your hands off the cart (not that it seems to be a normal issue for you guys): push the cart with your belly in an exaggerated motion. Usually gets a laugh and helps change the tone, and you can still keep moving...albeit not as fast. ;)
Hope your regular E comes back very soon...I know how much you love to hang out with THAT kid!
Sounds like our shopping trips, every time! I never take both the kids on my own, it just isn't feasible. If one of them is behaving, usually the other is not. *lol*
Hope your easy going E is back soon! It sounds a bit like the terrible two's have finally made an appearance. I hope it is short lived! Maybe he's coming down with something? That can set them off at times. Who knows.
I hate to hear about bad days. Don't worry, they happen to all of us. It was just a few days ago that I told Matt I had my worst day ever with Adam. Something about that toddler independence.
Have fun with your company. Maybe they'll be able to give Easton lots of attention over the next few days and your sweet boy will come back out!
Easton's giving you a run for your money today huh? I don't think any mother could honestly say she's never had a day like you are having, Walmart trip and all. I hope you find a discipline groove that works for you! Good luck with your company!
Big Hugs Kristin. Those type of days are rough. Really rough. Makes you just want to go in a hole and hide.
I bet he will do great with the grandparents. Acutally, I am positive he will :) Kids just love their g.parents! Have a great time with the family!!!
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